Taking control means:
Giving
orders 
Being the
boss Making decisions for the two of you without consulting the other
person Being possessive, keeping track of where the other person is, who
they talk to and what they do
Criticizing her all the time
Ruining her reputation by spreading
rumors
Getting her back for not doing what you
want
Unfair expectations are:
Thinking she owes you
sex
Believing she must agree with you all the
time
Thinking she shouldn't contradict you in
public
You can question her but she can't question
you
She must be interested in everything you are interested
in
Thinking you don't need to be interested in what she's interested
in
Expecting her to be available all the
time
Expecting her to put up with any mood you're
in
When you are unhappy, expecting her to feel responsible for making
you feel better
Thinking that you can cheat on her but she can't cheat on
you
Not taking girls and women seriously means:
Not
listening
Not respecting their
opinions
Seeing girls
as sex
objects
Thinking girls aren't as smart as
boys
Thinking girls are too sensitive, overly emotional, or
irrational
Sexism
Battering includes:
Hitting, shoving, pinching, burning, pushing, beating, throwing
things, punching walls
Threatening to hurt
someone
Destroying a person's property, hurting their pets, threatening
their family
Forcing sex on another
person
Keeping someone fearful of
you
